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Woo-Woo World
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On the heels of my Summer of Linda, the travel bug bit me again. This time, I drove to Sedona, AZ, for a three-day vacay with JB and DB, two women I met 36 years ago when, armed with a master’s degree and a can-do attitude, I jumped onto the corporate hamster wheel. Back then […]

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The Summer of Linda
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Having recently celebrated a birthday in grand style (Alpha J pulled out the stops and with my other dear peeps, orchestrated a surprise party at my fave restaurant), I can’t help but think back to my last big bday, the one that ended in a zero. Married 27 years at that point, my husband, mr. […]

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KARMA, Baby!
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I used to muse about my ex, mr. invisible, getting hit by a truck, a swift and sloppy ending to a life that appeared well-lived–but was not. When I would actually verbalize my thoughts of his untimely end, my friends warned me about bad karma and the boomerang theory–wish it for someone else, and it […]

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Living Apart Together
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My good gal pal Big T joined me for yoga this morning. As we rolled our mats out and sat cross-legged before class began, she spotted a tall, slender, sliver-haired, pleasant faced man in the row ahead of us wearing a trendy LuluLemon zip top and shorts. “Wow, who’s that?” she asked in the way […]

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True Love
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“I wanted a perfect ending. Now I’ve learned, the hard way, that some poems don’t rhyme, and some stories don’t have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what’s going to happen next. Delicious Ambiguity.” The late, […]

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Supply and Demand
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Dating after the age of 50 has us concerned about our crow’s feet, muffin tops, boob droop or as the late, great Nora Ephron so elegantly fretted, “I feel bad about my neck.” One of my favorite lady peeps, Big T (for BIG personality and opinions), says, “There’s not enough lube at Walmart to make […]

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My Truth
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I had lunch a couple of weeks ago with a new man whose past intersects with mine since we both have roots in the same midwestern city. As our first date was winding down, he asked if I wanted to continue the journey and see a movie. We’d spent four hours getting to know one […]

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Latitude
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Latitude: scope for freedom of action or thought; synonyms –freedom, scope, leeway, space, breathing space, flexibility, liberty, independence, free rein, license, room to maneuver, elbow room, wiggle room, freedom of action, as in “she gave him a lot of latitude” Out last night to a delicious dinner at a favorite bistro with a delightful lesbian […]

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Uncharted
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“Go out on a limb. That’s where the fruit is.” Former President Jimmy Carter, our country’s 39th “You get what you settle for.” Thelma and Louise, two of my favorite gals on the big screen. I took a trip last summer to an Idaho resort town where I’d never been before, but a place that […]

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Boundaries
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Before my marriage imploded, I remember sitting in P.’s office with mr. invisible, and P. my therapist asking me, “So what is the line that can’t be crossed?” We had been discussing my husband’s hobby of going places on his computer that should have been off limits in any healthy relationship. On that particular day, […]
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